April 03, 2008

One Prayer

Oneprayer_header Craig Groeschel from LifeChurch.TV has come up with an incredible idea to unite the body of Christ in the month of June.  One Prayer is a 4 week series combining churches all over the world, dozens of speakers, and hundreds of thousands of believers to pray one strategic prayer for the Church.  The prayer goes like this..."God make us ______."  Each church can pick from a line up of speakers and topics to show during the 4 week series.  Go to the One Prayer blog to check out the details.  GenesisChurch.TV will be participating in this historic moment in church history.  I challenge every pastor to be part of this movement!

March 25, 2008

Article in Democrat

Inked12 Tallahassee Democrat ran an awesome article in Sunday's paper about our new INKED series that kicked off this past Easter Sunday, which by the way was a great day for Genesis - we broke an attendance record!  If you didn't get a chance to pick one up or you don't live in Tally and want to check it out...click here! This series wasn't supposed to be controversial in any way, just a unique way to talk about the permanence of God's love and how it impacts our worldview.  Don't get hung up on the tattoo deal...it is just a method. No one is headed to hell because of body art, and we aren't telling people to go get a tat if you love Jesus; we are simply using an art form to present the message of Jesus to those that might hear it through a different ear.  So lets be astounded by the bunch of people who said yes to Jesus Sunday and a little less worried about things of little significance...know Christ...make Him known...using anything short of sin to make it happen...

March 19, 2008

Inked - Easter 08

Inked03 Inked04Well we always try to be a little creative each week in our presentation of the gospel, but this Easter, we are taking it to a whole new level!  Inked is about the love of God being tattooed on our hearts and how his love impacts our everyday relationships.  Tattoos and Easter - different, but I think we are going to make it work!  Each week we will have a short video from people like Micah and Matt (at left) who tell the real story behind the body art.  These are life changing stories about God, love, and significant relationships in their lives.  Don't miss Easter and invite your unbelieving friends and family to this non-typical Easter presentation...hopefully they will leave marked by his love and life.

March 11, 2008

Seek Week 08

Sunday begins our Seek Week leading up to Easter Sunday and our exciting new series on love and relationships entitled INKED.  It should be one of the most creative series we've done so far - I may even get a tattoo myself!  Seek Week is a week of corporate prayer and fasting.  We set this time aside each year to focus on our relationship with Christ, remember his passion, and clarify the work he wants to do in and through our lives.  The Annex will be open at lunch for "come and go" prayer from 1130 AM to 130 PM Monday through Thursday, and then we'll end our Seek Week on Good Friday with a Prayer Experience at 7 PM.  I hope many GCers will participate in this time of dedication and consecration.  We invite you to do a partial or full fast.  If you can't fast food or certain foods, you can fast TV, internet, or anything you personally enjoy.  When we push back the plate or give up something tangible, it gives us some focused time to pray, read Scripture, reflect, listen to worship music, and simply deepen our walk with Christ.  We think there is no better time than the Passion week to do this.  So join us for Seek Week and the Good Friday Prayer Experience and watch God do something significant in your life and our church!

February 27, 2008

Engage 21

This Thursday and Friday the Church of God is hosting the Engage 21 conference in Cleveland, TN.  Ed Stetzer will be the keynote speaker for the event.  I think his work on the missional church is outstanding and believe he will provide a great contextualization for what we are trying to accomplish. This conference is the beginning step of bridging a huge gap between generational ministry.  It is time that we stop talking about style of ministry, what type of music we sing and clothes we wear, and get passionate about reaching unchurched people in creative, innovative, and loving ways - no matter what form that takes.  My hope and prayer is that Engage 21 will produce healthy and effective dialog between local leaders and institutional leaders as we all attempt to navigate the constant changes of ministry and culture and build the Kingdom of God.  I am actually looking forward to the next couple of days and trying to stay optimistic that there is a chance change is on the horizon for the good of us all, young and old, traditional and emerging and everyone in between. Oh by the way, I get to tell the amazing story of what God has done at Genesis on Friday morning.  So if you are in Cleveland this week lets connect during the conference.

Brian

February 20, 2008

Time Waster...Worry

Worry.  I think it is one of the biggest time wasters in our lives.  It blocks creativity, causes brain fog, distracts from active problem solving, and causes unnecessary stress.  If you are like me in any way, a first-born, Type A, analytical, driven, recovering perfectionist then you'll understand this blog more than others.  Worry.  It is what we do best sometimes.  When life is outcome based and you are results oriented and live by a calendar and measure and value your time, worry sometimes can be a big enemy.  The reason...no one sees you doing it, and yet it is taking your time and your life like nothing else.  Worry takes your sleep, your rest, your ability for your body to recover for the next day of productivity.  Worry makes you agitated and irritable.  Worry causes you to be a half-listener because your brain is preoccupied with other stuff so you don't take in all the info in the moment and end up with a bad case of selective hearing.  Worry keeps you disengaged from really living life in the moment.  I think we often say we are praying, but really we are just worrying about stuff and God popped into the thought cycle!  Real prayer keeps us from allowing worry to hang around.  Jesus tells us not to worry, knowing full well we will anyway, but he reminds us today has enough challenges to overcome, we don't have to take on more than even exist.  Sometimes worry causes us to try to solve problems we don't have, but think we will have, and we end up not even solving the problems we actually do have.  If you followed that...I am proud!  What I mean is...we spend more time worrying about a future we honestly know little if nothing about instead of dealing with what is in front of us.  So if you are a chronic worry-er...stop it.  Why?  Jesus said so!  Plus it steals your time and your life.

February 14, 2008

Chloe turns 3!

Model_2 Today is my daughter Chloe's 3rd B-day.  Yes, Valentine's Day is ruined forever - who can you find to babysit on V-day???  Anyway, we had her party last night with 6 of her little girl-friends and their moms.  It was odd being one of only 4 guys...my son, the grandpas, etc...but it was fun...and loud, very loud!  It was a High School Musical party...she is 3 going on 13! That scares me a little :)!  It is funny how fast it has gone, just 3 years ago she was a little baby in my arms, and now she blushes when she sees Troy!  I love having a little girl; she has changed my life!  One thing is for sure...being with her is the greatest use of time I can think of!  It goes by fast, and I don't want to miss a moment!

Time Wasters

How much time do you waste during the day?  I challenge you to track your time for 5-7 days in a row hour by hour and then measure how much time slips through your fingers.  I bet you would be amazed!  If time is the highest commodity, then we need not only schedule it, but protect it with our lives.  I think the first step is to take the time to identify and list your core values which will produce your priorities.  Once you have those down, you'll begin to make decisions according to a structure that gets you where you want to go.  Each day there needs to be a "goal" list made of what must get done no matter what.  The difference between people who live a life of excellence and those who just get by, are the "musts".  Leaders have daily musts that no matter what happens, those priority musts get done.  It is important to work from the top down on that priority list, and making a list is not a priority!  A lot of people are happy just writing a list, and then feel so good about themselves they do nothing on the list!  That won't cut it I'm afraid.  Yes, you may need to get organized and that will make you feel better about your day or life, but you must discipline yourself to do what is on the list.  How?  Pay attention to the things and people in your day that distract you or pull you away from the musts.  Time Wasters. Saying no to good people and good things allows you to live in what is best.  The best is what God has, the best is what allows you to accomplish His vision.  Don't waste time...you'll never get it back, and it will take you twice as long to get where you are going! Saving time upfront by prioritizing your day causes you to maximize each moment and live it for God's glory.

February 13, 2008

Time: a valuable commodity

Being sick over the last 2.5 years has taught me so many lessons, but I think one, if not THE most valuable lesson is the value of time.  Time is our highest commodity; it is the only thing that can't be replaced in our lives, and none of us know how much we get in our designated lifetime.  I think most people waste more time than they realize, and as a result never realize their potential or walk in the fullness of God's plan for their lives.  Time is valuable.  Your time is valuable, but how much do you think it is worth?  How you spend your time is a reflection of your self worth and ultimately reveals what you believe about God's plan for your life.  Being a steward of your time is even more important than being a steward of your money.  Time = Life, not money.  If you are faithful with your time, more than likely stewardship will be a non-issue in any arena of your life and money will never be a problem. Time is more valuable because you can never get more of it.  So in 2008, I have made a commitment to guard not only my heart, but my time.  I have made even more deliberate choices to spend my time with people I love and believe in. Everyone else will just have to understand or get over it.  I feel such an urgency about this truth, that I have no time for negative people who have no desire to respect themselves enough to push forward and bring about positive change in their lives or others.  I am saying no more, taking less meetings, doing minimal counseling with selected people - not because I don't care, but because I care more now than ever! Because of my pain, everyday for me is an unknown; I do not know how much production time I will have, so I know what I have I must use wisely.  For me, my time means something, and this year I have committed to spend it with a select few: God - the one I love deeply and most, me - getting alone and using transitional times in the day to pray, learn, listen, read, grow, and reflect, my family - who make me smile and laugh and enjoy living, my friends - who have endured with me through some tough places that most would have abandoned because it has been too ugly and depressing, my staff - who are at the turning point of greatness and leadership effectiveness, my community group - 30 men I think will change a city for God if they'll let Him touch their hearts, and church planters, pastors and leaders - who share my heart for building God's Kingdom through strategic ministry and creative innovation.  I refuse to waste my time any longer.  I refuse to let Satan steal my time because if I forfeit that to him I'll lose my impact. I want to be very different man 11 months from now, and I know now, like never before how I spend my time will determine that very thing, and I think the same is true for you!  More on time to come in future blogs...

February 05, 2008

Conclusions

Conclusions.  Most of us like to come to them as fast as possible because it helps us make sense of the world and gives us a semblance of control, even though many times those conclusions in life are deceptive and untrue, especially since control is an allusion in itself.  Often in my spiritual journey and ministry leadership I have come to conclusions on what is right and what is wrong, what is theologically sound and what is heresy, what is great leadership and what is poor leadership; and because I have placed most things in nice, neat categories, I have limited my ability at times to be stretched in my thinking, thus limited my actions and growth.  Unintentionally, I have thrown out some good things, actually some great things, because they were hidden in a lot of bad junk.  Abuse leads to no use.  But even when things have been abused, like truth, it doesn't mean there isn't some truth around or hanging out in the margins.  The problem is, I have a tendency to miss things that limit my growth and development because I have not reflected or even taken the time to challenge my own conclusions.  I move on only to find out I shouldn't have moved on so quickly.  It is only later, when life has altered my perspective that I actually have the opportunity to go back and see how my own conclusions boxed me in and trapped me in a corner that was unnecessary.  The biggest mistake I made as a church planter was I did not talk about the value of tithing, giving, and managing finances God's way in the beginning, actually the first couple of years.  I was responding in my own head and heart to people "out there" who had embarrassed and abused God's name by attaching a heretical view of money to Him.  So I made up my mind I didn't want to be one of those money grubbing preachers because it wasn't about that for me, and I thought if you love God, you'll just naturally give.  I didn't want unchurched people to think that was all the church was after.  Ministry has never been about money for me.  I raised my own salary in most of my ministry ventures before church planting, raised money for the church plant, and didn't take a full salary for 2.5 years at Genesis.  I hated talking about money, raising money, asking for money, even taking up the offering at times was an issue - only because I didn't know how to express my heart or God's heart on the subject.  But now, 4.5 years into this journey, Genesis's biggest struggle is finances, like most churches.  I think the reason is my disobedience for not teaching biblical truths from the get go and letting my personal conclusions and messed-up view of money get in the way of what God wanted to do.  God convicted me about 2 years after we launched, and I began to teach the value of tithing, giving, and making smart financial choices.  I have found out most people don't know how to keep a checkbook much less stay out of debt.  I have never and still do not believe in the "prosperity gospel", but as I grow up, I am learning that sometimes my personal conclusions and my relationships to people, things, systems, and ideas can interfere with the truth of what God is wanting to do.  I do believe God wants us to live above debt and support the ministry of the Kingdom via the local church, that everything comes from him and everything is his, that 10% is the minimum, and that only when he has our treasure does he truly have our heart.  I learned that sometimes I came to faulty conclusions and created and responded to problems that did not even exist.  It was just a matter of my wrong perception; I tried to fix a problem that wasn't even my problem, because I wasn't one of "those guys out there" in the first place, so why would I feel such a compulsion to stay silent about the one area of life we deal with EVERYDAY; it didn't make sense, and it is my biggest regret, not just because finances at church is a struggle, but because I failed to teach the whole counsel of God, and it probably hurt more people and kept them down in a bad situation or held them back longer than necessary to move into success and financial freedom; I still have guilt over it!  What conclusions have you come to that are based in faulty perceptions rather than reality, God's reality - defined by his word?  You might want to reevaluate your conclusions and go back, because sometimes you'll find you left stuff behind that you are supposed to be carrying with you! I did.